Why Your Training Sessions Are Failing (And How Neuroscience Can Fix Them)
- Shari Starkey

- Dec 28, 2025
- 4 min read
Picture this: You've just invested hours preparing a comprehensive training session for your team. You've packed it with valuable information, delivered it with enthusiasm, and yet... three weeks later, it's like it never happened. Your team is back to old habits, and you're wondering where you went wrong.
If this sounds familiar, you're not alone. Despite organizations spending over $370 billion annually on employee training, research shows that 90% of new skills are lost within a year. The culprit? We're designing learning experiences that fight against how the brain actually works.
But here's the good news: neuroscience has cracked the code on what makes learning stick.
The AGES Model: Your Brain's Learning Blueprint
After studying thousands of learning experiences, neuroscientists at the NeuroLeadership Institute discovered four critical elements that determine whether information moves from short-term awareness to long-term behavior change. They call it the AGES Model: Attention, Generation, Emotion, and Spacing.
Think of these as the four pillars your brain needs to build lasting memories. Miss even one, and your carefully crafted training becomes expensive entertainment.
A is for Attention: Why Your Brain Checks Out After 20 Minutes
Here's a reality check that changed how I design every learning experience: your brain's attention span maxes out at about 20 minutes. After that, you're essentially talking to mental zombies.
This isn't about willpower or engagement—it's biology. Your prefrontal cortex, the brain's CEO, literally runs out of glucose and needs a break.
What this means for you as a leader: - Break longer sessions into 20-minute chunks with brain breaks - Make content immediately relevant and personal - Use stories and real scenarios that trigger dopamine release - Incorporate social elements—ask participants to share thoughts and experiences
I learned this the hard way during a 2-hour compliance training that felt more like a hostage situation. Now? I design 20-minute focused sessions followed by application discussions, and the difference in engagement is night and day.
G is for Generation: Let Them Build Their Own Insights
Here's where most training goes wrong: we tell people what to think instead of helping them think for themselves.
Generation means your learners must actively create connections between new information and their existing knowledge. When people generate their own insights, they literally build stronger neural pathways.
Try this instead: - Ask "How does this connect to a challenge you're facing?" - Use case studies that mirror their real situations - Have them create action plans rather than giving them templates - Encourage them to share examples from their own experience
The magic happens when someone says, "Oh, I see how this applies to my situation with Sarah..." That's their brain making the learning stick.
E is for Emotion: The Memory Superglue
Memory and emotion are neurologically inseparable. But here's the nuance most leaders miss: moderate emotion enhances learning, while extreme emotion shuts it down.
You want to create positive emotional connections without overwhelming your learners. Fear-based training ("If you don't do this, you'll get fired") actually impairs the brain's ability to form new memories.
The sweet spot: - Use reward-focused language over threat-focused - Help learners name and acknowledge any anxiety about change - Celebrate small wins and progress - Create psychological safety for questions and mistakes
When I shifted from "Here's what you're doing wrong" to "Here's how this will make your job easier," everything changed. People leaned in instead of shutting down.
S is for Spacing: Why Cramming Doesn't Work
This might be the most counterintuitive principle: spacing out learning over time is more effective than intensive, one-time sessions.
Your brain needs time to consolidate new information, especially during sleep. That's why the most powerful spacing includes a 12-hour gap that allows for a sleep cycle.
Practical spacing strategies: - Follow up initial training with micro-learning sessions - Send weekly application challenges - Schedule check-ins 1 week, 1 month, and 3 months later - Use spaced repetition for key concepts
I now design learning journeys, not learning events. A 20-minute initial session, followed by weekly 5-minute application challenges, creates more behavior change than any day-long workshop ever did.
The Game-Changer: Why Multitasking Kills Learning
Here's the insight that revolutionized how I approach all learning and development: multitasking during learning isn't just ineffective—it's neurologically impossible.
fMRI studies show that when we think we're multitasking, our brain is actually rapidly switching between tasks. Each switch creates a cognitive cost, reducing both learning effectiveness and task performance by up to 40%.
This means: - Phones and laptops away during learning sessions - One focus at a time - Full presence, not partial attention - Quality over quantity in learning experiences
Your 30-Day AGES Challenge
Ready to transform your next learning initiative? Pick one upcoming training session and apply just one AGES principle:
Week 1: Break your content into 20-minute segments with brain breaks
Week 2: Add one generation activity where learners create their own connections
Week 3: Incorporate moderate positive emotion through success stories
Week 4: Design a follow-up touchpoint to reinforce key concepts
The leaders who master AGES don't just deliver training—they create lasting transformation. In a world where change is the only constant, that's not just a nice-to-have skill. It's your competitive advantage.
What's one AGES principle you'll experiment with this week? The neuroscience is clear: small changes in how you design learning can create massive changes in results.
Want to dive deeper into brain-based leadership? The research behind AGES comes from the NeuroLeadership Institute's ongoing studies on how neuroscience can improve workplace performance.





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